Clean your room
What are you oriented towards? The answer could easily be nothing! Well, this is why I produced the future authoring program. You got to be oriented towards something. Because otherwise you’re disoriented, you just spin around in circles and then you suffer. And so the people around you, it’s not a good solution. Orient yourself toward something. You have to figure out what it is. What will work for you? What goal would justify the suffering of your life? Start trying to piece that together, you’re going to get better at it. But it’s a personal process and you should use your education to inform that. So you need a personal place to stand, because otherwise you’re going to be handed a place to stand on a plate and it may be a one that makes you a puppet of someone else’s goals. So I would say, what are the processes? I think what I’ve recommended to people is ‘clean up your room’. That’s a good start, organize your local landscape, schedule your time, start taking control of yourself. See if you can stop saying things you know to be lies. That’s not the same as telling the truth. You don’t get to do that to begin with because you’re not good enough at it to even attempt it in some sense. Stop saying things that violate your conscious. Stop saying things you know to be untrue because we run into the truth problem. Here is another idea, stop saying and doing things that make you feel weak. It’s all you have to do is pay attention to that. Some things you do will make you feel disintegrated. It’s a physiological sensation. Some things improve your integrity and some things disintegrate you. The things that disintegrate you, you often do to impress other people or because you’re taking a shortcut or you’re escaping what you know to be your moral obligation. And your moral obligation stems naturally from your aims. Like once you have aims, you have moral obligations, they come together. Because the moral obligation is what you need to do in order to obtain the aim. So and if you don’t have an aim, well then you’re aimless. So that’s not a solution. So along with the aims come the moral obligation. Then when you violate the moral obligations, you’ll have a sense of that violation. It’s like well, you have to stop doing that, or that’s something you could do, you don’t have to. But I would say that’s where people should start, you start small. It’s not small, you think it’s small.
Your room is an externalization of your mind. That is how it is. Straighten up what you can straighten up. And quit saying things that make you feel weak. And then you’ll know what to do next.